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What’s Involved in Stopping War and Ecocide and the Necessary Mess of Transformation: Hard to Believe, But We’re Getting Saner

Posted on May 29, 2013 by sillymickel

The Cycle of All Events, the Evolution of Parenting, and Auspicious Collective Regressions: Being Crazy in an Insane World Might Mean You’re the Sane One Chapter Nine: Regressions in the Service of Society — Messy Healing There Is a Cycle … Continue reading →

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Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence: What Say We Leave a Planet For Our Offspring? And Can You Handle Happiness?

Posted on May 23, 2013 by sillymickel

Cycles of War, Cycles of Birth … What Can Be Done: Changing the Patterns of Millennia Requires Learning That Feeling Good Is Not Bad Apocalypse No! Chapter Eight: Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence Men Would Rather Be Manly … Continue reading →

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Railing Against the Darkness: The Vanity of Will, The Impotence of Reason, Progress Requires Regress, and Healing Is Nothing if Not Messy

Posted on July 16, 2012 by sillymickel

Rebirthing Rituals, Part Two: Railing Against the Darkness, The Vanity of Will, The Impotence of Reason, and Social Progress Requires Regression The Vanity of Will, The Impotence of “Reason” What we absolutely don’t have, yet arrogantly think we do, … Continue reading →

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Rebirthing Rituals, Part One: There Is a Cycle to All Events … The Spiral Dance, Why We Can’t Get No Satisfaction, and Where There Is Real Hope

Posted on July 15, 2012 by sillymickel

The Spiral Dance – The Cycle of All Events: Wedded to Rebirthing Rituals, the Inevitability of Disappointment, and Where There is Real Hope Wedded to Rebirthing Rituals At the point when the perinatal unconscious arises, individuals — and collectively, … Continue reading →

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Can You Handle Happiness? What to Do – We Get By With a Little Help, from Our Nature … Stand in the Place Where You Are

Posted on July 11, 2012 by sillymickel

A Hierarchy of Healing … Becoming Human Beings (Not Doings): Removing the Hood from Homophobes, A Hard Rain, and Stand OK, knowing this, one might ask if I am suggesting that to save our species everyone needs to get into … Continue reading →

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What to Do to Stop War and Violence: Changing the Patterns of Millennia Requires Learning That Feeling Good Is Not Bad

Posted on July 9, 2012 by sillymickel

To Derail War and Violence, Replace Self-Sabotaging With Self-Actualizing … We Can No Longer Afford Our Delusional Ways What Can Be Done? So knowing this, how can we use it? In previous chapters, I explained how and why we … Continue reading →

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Men Would Rather Be Manly Than Alive and What Say We Leave a Planet for Our Offspring? Derailing War and Violence, Part 1

Posted on July 5, 2012 by sillymickel

Why We Invite War, Allow Fascism, and Pollute: Our Coming Into the World Makes Us Want to Leave It The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we had opened the door to an unimaginable armageddon … Continue reading →

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War, Violence, and Earth Murder – Getting By With a Little Help from Human Nature

Posted on August 29, 2011 by sillymickel

War, Violence, Earth .. and Our Tendency to Always Screw Up a Good Thing What’s So Bad About Good? Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we would … Continue reading →

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Rebirthing Rituals and Auspicious Collective Regressions – Better Psychotic Than Waging War

Posted on August 23, 2011 by sillymickel

Rebirthing Rituals and Auspicious Collective Regressions – The Messy Scenery of Healing Wedded to Rebirthing Rituals At the point when the perinatal unconscious arises, individuals—and collectively, society—have the choice to turn toward the emergence of these feelings or to turn … Continue reading →

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Derailing War and Violence: Can You Handle Happiness?

Posted on August 22, 2011 by sillymickel

Derailing War and Violence: Can You Handle Happiness? The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we had opened the door to an unimaginable armageddon or were experiencing the birth pangs of a massive consciousness transformation … Continue reading →